You want to turn on your favorite guy with a few cleverly crafted text messages, but you don't want to be obvious.
You're positive guys don't fall for women who do all the chasing or are so obviously promiscuous, and you're absolutely right. They don't. They'll accept the sex and give you nothing more.
The more obvious texts to turn any guy that is attracted to you on sexually are below, plus my formula to craft your very own. Along with a few books packed with examples you can just type in your phone and hit send.
Turning him on without being so obvious is more difficult to achieve but not impossible so we'll start with the TWO WORDS you must understand to achieve it:
- Ambiguous: Open to more than one interpretation; not having one obvious meaning.
This simply means you'll want to send texts that can be interpreted as sexual, if it's on his mind, but no so blatant.
- Double Entendre: A word or phrase open to two interpretations, one of which is usually risqué or indecent.
Similar to ambiguous but clearly used as a way to flirt with him and allow his mind to race.
If you can get a man thinking about you sexually, minus being upfront and detailed - you WILL turn him on.
Tips for turning on a guy in a text message without being so obvious.
When a guy thinks, believes, and feels you're excited by something he says or does, or has said or done - it turns him on.
Your goal is to "pretend" something he has done or said is on your mind with a few mixed signals, ambiguity, and double entendrees.
Compliments work quite well too.
Here are some examples you can use right away:
"That shirt you wore yesterday looked great on you."
"It's great texting you, but I wish I could see your eyes."
"Missing you, guess you could say I've been thinking about you lately."
"Are you really wearing 'that' today? You know what that does to me!"
Use words that suggest the possibility of you being naked, sexually aroused, or thinking about him in ways which could be sexual or not.
"Shower time. ;)"
"Don't you have something better you could be 'doing' right now?"
"I'm so excited right now - guess why?"
"Brrr!!! It's so cold here - you know what that means. :D"
"I LOVE my bed!!!"
Hint how you're secretly excited and blame it on him.
Always pretend it's HIS fault when you're feeling great and especially sexy, possibly naughty too.
"You really need to stop making me feel this way. :p"
"My phone is on vibrate 😉 Just waiting your for reply :)"
"Something tells me I won't get much sleep tonight, thanks a lot.. jerk. :)"
Send cute pictures of yourself.
Men are obviously visually turned on so an amazing picture of yourself will do the trick.
Avoid risque pictures or half-naked ones because that's a little too upfront.
Show him your sexy smile with a great enticing angle of your body and that's ALL a guy will need to have his mind racing sexually about you.
Bring out his romantic side so he feels open to courting you more.
An super affiliate of mine created this amazing report and product to help you open him up to romancing you.
Here's his plan:
If you're in a relationship that seems to be losing a little chemistry or sex appeal or it's missing some romance - and you want to spice it up a little and ENCOURAGE him to be more romantic towards you...
You must do these three things:
First you need to REMIND HIM what a valuable prize you are and bait him into hunting and chasing you again.
In other words TEASE HIM like I've already shown you today.
Second, you need to give him permission to be a guy.
(Very important because guys can get a little locked up or afraid of their sexual desires.)
You need to make him feel SAFE!
Safe in the sense that being a romantic guy is not a big deal, it doesn't make him any less than a man, and you have absolutely NO expectations of him to be great at it.
He needs to feel like that just by TRYING to be romantic IS romantic to you.
A guy might be scared of trying it if he thinks he sucks at it and it won't work on you.
AND... other guys won't have to know he's doing it so it's all good.
He has to know his buddies or guys he works with won't know he's that "type" of guy so they're less likely to bust his ass about it; which will certainly stop him from trying or continuing on it.
Hey - sorry - I didn't make the "male" ego - but you can choose to try working around it, OR use it to your advantage.
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It is designed for women already in a relationship but I've been assured by him that you can use it to amplify a man's attraction you're just dating.
Taking it to the next level - Sexting & more.
I'm going to brag a little here. When I was single I was a master at texting to lead women into sexting with me. You won't be getting any details on those experiences because being a married man, it's in my past.
I can certainly tell you my "secret" you can use on the guy you want to sext with.
Use the formulas above and when the time is right and he's chasing you, turn up the heat.
AND... You don't have to be creative at all.
Here's how it works:
Think of something that he does that turns you on, OR you know it excites you, and then text it.
Mix it up with a little something to "remind" him of the things he does which turns you on, OR what you already know he likes when you do it.
Add to what you're doing is thinking about doing by blaming it on him and you'll hook him in.
Make sure you add lots of emojis so he definitely won't miss the point.
Practice it a little you'll be a master at turning him on with just your phone.
The KEY to sexting is using your imagination or past sexual experiences from start to finish and send each step in a message.
Yes, it's that simple.
There's absolutely no need to complicate a natural process:
Start with a visual peek for him in words and tell him how much he turns you on.
Move on to foreplay.
"I can feel your warm breath as your lips glide across my soft neck, kissing, touching, feeling every inch of me as the goosebump race cross my body."
Finish with a climax.
Use descriptive words and ALWAYS remind him of how much he is turning you on.
If you're struggling with it, ask me below, and/or just yourself lots of pre-made and proven examples.
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Turning on a guy through texting is quite simple when you use my formulas and examples above.
I KNOW you can quickly come up with lots of sexually exciting things to send him which are either not so obvious or sexually enticing with a little practice.
Ambiguity and double entendtrees are your word techniques to avoid being too obvious.
Use his natural male need to seduce you and make you feel amazing to your advantage.
Remember: A man gets easily turned on when he believes something he is doing is working to turn YOU on.
Blame the fact you're exciting in any way - even the non-sexually on him by being a little flirty and fun too.
Compliment him often on things that are not so obvious.
Use suggestible words that you might be naked, aroused, and feeling sexy.
Send cute pictures of yourself from time to time. Men are visually stimulated and if they're not too risky, his imagination will take care of the rest - and you won't be sending nudes - which is a good thing.
Bring out his romantic side to open him up to romancing you more often.
- Remind him you're a great prize and bait him into chasing you.
- Give him permission to BE a guy.
- Make him feel safe to do it secretly.
BIG CONCEPT NUMBER 1: Your Manʼs Cell Phone is the closest thing to “Telepathy” that you can get.
BIG CONCEPT NUMBER 2: Guys Respond to VISUAL stimuli. Guys are NOT as emotionally complex as women and are a lot more blunt in their communication.
BIG CONCEPT NUMBER 3: A Manʼs Greatest Pleasure Comes From The Ability To Give A Woman Pleasure and to be Appreciated for it.
BIG CONCEPT NUMBER 4: Romantically, Your Man Needs To Feel Like Heʼs “Winning” You And Feel Like Heʼs In Charge.
Your texts must be tailored to the type of guy he is, IF you want to maximize your success.
Type ones will take it one way and if he's not a "good" type one, you could expose yourself to lots of sexual problems with him.
If he is one of the good ones it's okay, but I would NOT get too sexual with this type too quickly. Let HIM take the lead.
Types twos are a little more positively and sexual responsive in this area but be careful, if you're not into him that much just yet, using this formula or any packaged texts to send him could get him more sexually obsessed with you.
Which might seem good but there has to be a balance IF you want something more serious with him.
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