Just because he says he’s not ready for a relationship, doesn’t mean he’s broken and you need to wait for him to fix himself. Just because he tells you he’s not looking for one right now, doesn’t mean it will change anytime soon. Often it’s because he’s not looking to get together with you on a deeper level. He’s not feeling what he needs to feel to move forward. The connection is not there. Find out is you should wait and give him all the time and space he needs to figure it all out, or if you should start dating other men immediately.

He’s been flirting with you casually and then one day he lets it slip out, he’s been thinking about you. Did he mean to say it? Learn a technique men use on you known as planting the seed and linking. What it does, how it’s done, and how you can use it on him too. Create a deeper connection and have fun too.

When we speak different languages it’s hard to connect with each other. Men and women aren’t exactly saying the same thing even if they’re using the same words. If you believe spoken words or phrases are holding your dating and relationship back, then you need to read this. What men are looking for in their language.

You’re a complex woman. You’re a smart woman. You want to understand men but all they do is frustrate, confuse, and make you want to scream men so loudly you’d think they’d finally get the point. When you want to get past all the needless blame, answer these questions honestly to find a new path to understanding.