Just because he says he’s not ready for a relationship, doesn’t mean he’s broken and you need to wait for him to fix himself. Just because he tells you he’s not looking for one right now, doesn’t mean it will change anytime soon. Often it’s because he’s not looking to get together with you on a deeper level. He’s not feeling what he needs to feel to move forward. The connection is not there. Find out is you should wait and give him all the time and space he needs to figure it all out, or if you should start dating other men immediately.