Written by Brad Browning, creator of The Ex Factor Guide.
Yeah, the feeling of getting dumped sucks. There’s no question about that. Sometimes, you can go crazy thinking about all the things that went wrong in your relationship.
But the bottom of the line is, the reason why your relationship ended is because your boyfriend has lost attraction for you.
No, it wasn’t because you left your dirty laundry around the house or that it’s “him, not you…”, it’s because the foundation of his attraction for you faded – and it’s your fault.
There are ways you can “re-attract” your boyfriend (and I’ll get to that in a second), but you have to first understand why he dumped you. Only then will you know how you can get him back.
This is what I like to call The Six Deadly Relationship Sins.
Now, I’m not saying that you committed all of these mistakes, but chances are you probably exhibited at least one of these characteristics that pretty much forced your boyfriend to leave you (even if he’s claimed that he left you for another reason).
The first Deadly Sin is a common problem that over half of women have in their relationships – and that’s being way too controlling.
Men are repelled by women that put unrealistic restraints on their lives.
Though asserting your dominance in a relationship is important, you have to know exactly when “enough is enough”. If you don’t, then don’t be surprised that your boyfriend or husband left you.
The second Deadly Sin is a bit of a weird one, but always seeking external validity from your boyfriend is a huge attraction-breaker.
What does that mean?
It means that you constantly seek out your boyfriend’s approval.
Asking questions like, “Do you love me? Do I look fat in this dress? Did you have a good time?” repel women.
It’s like saying to him that you aren’t confident enough or good enough… and this reeks of insecurity.
The third Deadly Sin is being jealous all the time.
Were you jealous that he was flirting with other girls?
Maybe he was hanging out with a female friend that you felt a little suspicious about… Well, if you did exhibit this emotion, then again, don’t be surprised that your boyfriend lost some attraction for you. Jealousy is the ultimate form of insecurity.
So now that you know only some of the relationship killers, how do you go about “re-attracting” your boyfriend?
Well, it starts with employing some of my most powerful psychological techniques. Yes, even if things seem completely hopeless right now, you can get him back if you know what you’re doing.
Let me first introduce myself.
My name is Brad Browning and I’m known as the “Relationship Geek.” I’ve been helping thousands of women across the globe win back their ex-boyfriends.
My success rate is over 90%.
Even if you think your relationship with your ex boyfriend is completely torn, I can bet you there is a way to make him fall hopelessly in love with you again (or at least give you a second chance!).
You see, what a lot of women do when they get dumped is they start begging and pleading.
They ask for forgiveness and start begging for second chances.
The say “sorry” and “just give me another chance” time after time. If you’re guilty of one of these mistakes, then you better start listening to my advice… because chances are you’re doing something right now that is pushing your ex further and further away (and into the arms of another girl).
So do yourself a favor and check out my free video.
In it, I’ll tell you exactly how you can get your ex boyfriend back as soon as possible… and I’ll go over some other Deadly Sins as well.
If You Want Your Ex Back - Then You Need To STOP Being Friends With Him
Are you “friends” with your ex boyfriend?
Maybe your ex suggested it would be a good idea to be friends.
Or maybe you think it’s “better than nothing” if the alternative is losing him forever.
Being friends with your ex is actually almost always a bad idea and a recipe for additional (and unnecessary) heartache.
That’s especially true if you want to get your ex back, but it’s even true if you’re ready to move on and don’t want to get back together.
And although the “friend zone” is a terrible place to be with your ex, so many people fall for this trap because it’s such a tempting idea.
I mean, your ex is giving you an option that allows you to maintain contact with the person you’ve loved for some time and, in theory, this will allow you to move on gently and slowly without the intense feelings of loneliness that often accompany a breakup.
After all, if you can slowly wean yourself off those romantic feelings rather than going “cold turkey” and shutting down all contact with him, isn’t that a better option?
But the problem is that even though it often seems like a perfect compromise, being friends usually provides very little comfort and actually makes the process of moving on longer and more difficult than it needs to be.
AND… even more importantly… it will ruin your chances of winning your ex back!
There are a few other huge problems with agreeing to be friends with your ex if you want to win him back:
#1: It won’t give him a chance to develop feelings of nostalgia and he won’t miss you as much.
One of the key ingredients to repairing a relationship is that your ex needs to miss you like crazy.
How do you make someone miss you?
Simple: disappear from their life suddenly and completely, shutting down all lines of communication.
By maintaining a friendship with your ex, it’s impossible to really effectively disappear from his radar and make him miss you.
#2: It gives complete control of the situation to your ex.
Another key to winning back your ex is to make it clear that you are still equal with him even though he’s decided to break up with you.
You need to make it known that you’re not a pushover and that if your ex isn’t interested in a romantic relationship, then he’s cut from your life altogether.
#3: You serve as a “safety net” for your ex while they look for someone new.
Do you want to be your ex’s confidante while he tells you about his new lovers?
Do you want to be his “backup plan” in case things don’t work out with the new romance he’s pursuing?
Of course not.
You have to make it absolutely clear to your ex that if he chooses to break up with you, he’s on his own and he can’t come running back to you if he finds the single life a bit less fun than he imagined it would be.
In reality, there really isn’t any scenario where being friends (at least for the first few months) after a breakup is possible.
If you’ve already agreed to be “friends” with your ex and got yourself stuck in the “friend zone,” calm down…. you can still undo this mistake and win him back but only if you take action.
The first step is to watch this complimentary video:
In fact, even if you haven’t yet agreed to be friends with your ex, you should still take 5 minutes to watch that video, it will teach you a few little-known techniques to re-wire your ex’s feelings and make him want you back.
How Did He Go From Being Your Best Friend and lover… To Being Cold, Distant, and Indifferent.
Men think differently than women — that’s no secret. But men also have these things called “Emotional Vulnerabilities” and most women have no idea what they are.
But once you learn how to hit these “Emotional Vulnerabilities”, he’ll realize how much he actually misses you and needs you.
And this isn’t rocket science, it’s actually pretty simple.
He just needs your help to realize how much he actually misses you.
Without your help, he won’t be able to unlock these feelings and he’ll forever be cold and distant. You have to watch this video before it’s too late and you lose him forever.
And once you follow the steps in that video he’ll feel safe with you. He’ll feel that warmth and desire that he had for you wash over him. He’ll finally realize that you’re the only one that really understands him.