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What Sex Workers Know About Men That You Don’t but Need to Know

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Written by Nadine Piat - Creator of Secrets Of The Irresistible Lover.

Over the years I've been researching the ins and outs of love, attraction and sex between men and women, and not so long ago I took my research to a whole new level by interviewing some sex workers about their experience with men, and what I discovered may shock you.

If a woman hears about someone's or their very own husband, boyfriend or lover being caught going to a brothel, most women would be devastated and appalled,or jump to the conclusion that it's all about sex or the reason he 'strayed' was because he was no longer physically attracted to his partner.

What may seem strange is that this is often not the case.

The thing is, most men who see a sex worker are not solely there to have a sexual interlude, you'd actually be quite surprised by how many men want to talk and build some sort of connection with the woman first.

You'd also be very surprised as to what the men share about themselves, their life and their relationships.

Sure, of course there are guys that are there to purely "get off" with no chatting necessary, or they have some strange and kinky requirements, though the majority of the men seek some level of intimacy beyond the physical - they also seek the emotional kind.

They want to share their concerns and fears and they want to get the things that worry them off of their chest.

Most men bottle so much up inside that they tend to use this sexual platform as a way to express themselves, both emotionally and physically in a way they feel they can't with their partner.

Further to that, the most important element of this is that a prostitute doesn't judge a man or use what he says against him to hurt or control him.

So, what does this mean for you?

It means that men are dying for a safe place to bare their soul and they deeply yearn for openness and sharing.

Most of all they want to feel loved, cherished and valued by a woman.

This by no means suggests that going to a sex worker or having a private lap dance or anything like it is acceptable when you're in a committed relationship.

Though it does clearly and boldly indicate that most men seek a much deeper level of emotional and sexual intimacy, they want to feel as though they're winning with you and that they're your hero.

Sometimes there's too much frustration, anger, hurt or blame running that's standing in the way of real intimacy.

Or perhaps you simply don't know how to relate to men in a way that has them feeling safe with you, which then allows him to be more intimate with YOU.

So if you're relationship is suffering, you find it difficult to connect to your partner, or you find it difficult to keep a relationship going, then perhaps it's time to communicate and respond to your man or the man you have your eye on in a new way.

Most of us aren't taught skills that keep attraction and passion alive.

True intimacy with a man starts with being responsive to him in a way that has him yearning for you and going wild for you.

If you want him to take notice of you, open up to you, desire you and make love to you in all the right ways then check out this video:

Find out how to get a man to open his mind, body, heart and soul to you

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He's With you, But IS he Really?

The devastation of heartbreak and the joy of true LOVE....

Mandy Wrote:

"Can you help me? I feel like my boyfriend is pulling away from me. Things used to be great, he is SUCH a good man, I really love him, but lately it feels like I am losing him.

He says it's just pressure from work, but it feels like more. He used to tell me he loves me all the time, and I could see in his eyes it was true - but now he seems distracted and everything I try is pushing him further away. He would rarely go out with his friends, though now he can't seem to stay away from them.

I feel terrible. He's still 'with' me, but I don't feel that he is REALLY mine, it's as though I'm waiting for him to tell me it's over.

I can tell by the way he speaks to me that he's frustrated with me, but he won't tell me what the problem is. How can I get him back?"

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Hey Mandy,

You are not the first person to get stuck in this kind of relationship and unfortunately, if you keep pushing him, he is just going to pull further away and will potentially end the relationship.

It's normal for you to want to fix things, but you need to do it in an effective way!

When he is being short and frustrated with you, emotionally pushing you away or not giving you the attention you deserve... and your reaction is to try harder, give him MORE and do whatever you can to make him happy, you are doing more damage than good!

Without knowing it, you are training him to keep acting that way - because, guess what? He is getting a reward out of it! He's getting attention and in an unhealthy way.

For him to come back to that place of true happiness and intimacy with you, which naturally leads to stronger commitment... you need do something powerful that will have HIM completely spellbound by you and back in love with you.

Watch this video by Nadine Piat:

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Are you tired of the heartbreaking cycle of attracting a guy you really like, then suddenly he’s not so interested anymore, or worse, he disappears completely? This can really sting and over time this emotional rollercoaster can take its toll.

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Just When You Thought He Was Yours Forever...

There you are...happy as can be. You just met a man that makes you feel excited about love again. The future looks wide open, and it looks like this one might actually work out.

Every night is better than the last. You feel more connected with him than you have with anyone in the last few years. This is amazing!

You finally surrender into his arms and the clothes come off. It feels sensational! The relationship begins.

Your body lights up at the mere thought of connecting with him. You send flirty text messages and emails back and forth, and you're off to a great start with this relationship.

AND THEN SOMETHING CHANGES...

You don't quite know what it is, but things are starting to feel different. You notice he's taking longer to reply to your messages. He answers his phone a little less often. He's not pursuing you like he did in the beginning.

He's withdrawing...

You can feel it, but you don't know why it's happening, or how to even bring it up with him...

And that's when the relationship starts to go downhill. You begin feeling insecure and lonely, even though he's still in your life (but barely). You know it's only a matter of time before he tells you, "We're just not a match".

All those hopes and dreams you had about your future together are just distant memories now.

WHY? WHY DOES THIS HAPPEN?

Up until recently nobody really figured it out. We just assumed that this is how most men are, and there's nothing we can do except hope we find someone who is different.

A real man.

Well guess what? Nadine has just discovered two things you NEED to know about:

#1 - The REAL reason this keeps happening to you (the answer will surprise you - you've probably never thought of this before in your life).

#2 - The simple solution that makes you so irresistible to men that he'll not only stay with you, but grow more and more connected with you over time.

She made a video that explains what's going on here, so go ahead and check this out now:

Secrets Of the Irresistible Lover is all about sensuality and how to inspire and attract a man on a deep level; a sensual level versus a sexual level, there is a BIG difference, and this will dramatically boost attraction and inspire a lasting connection.

In a world where our sexuality is both suppressed and often exploited it’s critical for women to know exactly how to tap into their sensuality to not only inspire attraction but an authentically loving connection too.

It teaches women to honor their bodies and know how to engage a man on a deeper level, a more sensual level, which creates a deeply emotional and physical bond.

Find out how to get a man to open his mind, body, heart and soul to you.

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Why He's Not Into You...

There are only a couple of reasons why the guy you love (or the man you've got your eye on) is not matching you in your level of want, desire and attention.

There is ALWAYS a reason....

You're probably doing one of the things that scares men and shuts them down, and for men it's like being at a theme park 'House of Horrors'!

Not to say you're doing anything horrible... although there are things women do that has that 'scary' effect on a man.

Watch this video by Nadine Piat. She'll show you how you can turn it all around and have him giving you the attention you deserve and have been waiting patiently for ...or not so patiently.

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Does He Even CARE What You Want In The Bedroom?

Have you ever craved a deeper and more meaningful sexual connection with a man, yet no matter what you've tried, body tingling o.r.g.a.s.m.i.c intimacy continues to elude you?

Perhaps you worry that you'll offend him by telling him what you like or want... or worse, you think he might judge you for it? If you said yes, then...

HERE'S THE TRUTH ABOUT MEN AND SEX.

He's actually dying to know how to please you. In case you haven't noticed, he NEEDS to feel like he's satisfying you in order to feel good about himself as a man.

He wants you to be happy in the bedroom, and you want that as well.

If you're anything like how I used to be, your body is craving for:

More intimacy...

More pleasure...

More loving...

More shuddering bliss...

More passion...

More orgasms...

More tenderness...

The good news is orgasmic bliss is easy to experience... once you know the secret that makes it happen. And that's exactly what this video reveals:

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Every woman was born to experience great love and spine tingly, toe curling sexual pleasure, yet many do not.

Too many women are settling for unsatisfying physical play. Most women know very little about their own bodies or have little idea how to express their needs to experience true pleasure with a man.

Simple Orgasmic Secret explores shame in present time and past trauma that many women experience that blocks love and true intimacy. This is a beautiful program that inspires women to learn about their bodies to overcome fears and insecurities.

SOS is hear to help women celebrate and honor their bodies (all shapes and sizes) and to also honor the men they’re with, which brings about safe and heightened intimacy.

This is powerful for all women in any relationship status.

Let go of the guilt, embarrassment and shame, and embrace your sensual magnetism.

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