Why does understanding men have to be so complicated!!!
Depends how you look at it, doesn’t it?
Look into the psychology and sociology of it all and it can become quite complicated. That kind of studying can take us years to fully grasp.
We can study the mind of a guy by going deeper and deeper until we hit the right spot. The “Aha!” moment just might grant us full access to any man’s heart and mind.
But I don’t think everyone wants to go that far…
It’s usually about one guy, right now, who is frustrating you and confusing you so much you felt you had no choice but to seek advice about his “problem.”
I’m glad you did. Grab a seat. 🙂
Now for you… this guy is doing things you don’t understand. You’re looking for the deeper meaning of it all.
And I’m guessing that more than 99% of you are probably in some way attracted to him.
On the other side:
Maybe you’ve been confused by too many men for too long and you’re tired of it. You believe the answers to understanding men will give you insight to help you make better decisions and enjoy a happy relationship.
Whatever your reasons for being here… thank you!
I do hope I can bring closer to you a “new” understanding of men and in the very least, excite your desire to learn about men than you ever have before.
I’m going to leave you quickly today but I want you to consider when we’re dealing with men there are two different kinds of guys.
Each of course have their own niche in life and in your world too.
Group 1: The guys who GET (understand) you.
Some do it naturally.
Some will learn it through trial and error.
Some seek advice and use it for good. Other use that same advice to “play” you.
Some have “problems” and use their natural ability to play most women.
Some don’t even know they’re doing it.
This group (so it’s been formulated) consists of about 8% to 10% of men. It’s estimated (based on my own observation and experience only) that 1 out of every 10 in this group fall in the bad category.
These are considered the guys who actually sleep with or date the majority of ALL women. A note which has never been proven but definitely observed by the next group.
Group 2: The guys who DON’T get you.
Women and their relationships with them have come primarily by accident.
90% plus of all men fall into this category.
They live in your friends zone. You rarely feel attracted to them.
They can be “nice guys” but they can also be the over-confident prick who pretends he’s in group 1.
These guys meet a woman who likes them although they might not know why. If she pursues him AND if he feels a little attracted to her – he will “settle” comfortably and just take things as they come along.
That doesn’t mean he can’t love you.
In fact he’ll probably give you more love than you can handle which at times will appear needy.
But remember… these are guys who generally don’t get you.
This group can and will dabble in the other group. They won’t know it’s happening but they can invoke your attraction and interest.
After some time though they typically revert fully to group 2.
Although this group is widely varied I would say most of them are nice and decent gentlemen…
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