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What Do You Love About Your Man or All Men? Show Him How Much You Care

Guys want to be noticed. They want to know how much they’re loved.

How could you so easily love a guy in that shirt. Do you love how goofy he acts. How great he always smells. They way he always looks at you like he really gets you. Tell us, what do you REALLY love about all men too.

Guys love to be complimented. Much more than you might ever believe. Here’s your chance to let it all out and tell ALL men all the little things you love about them.

But there’s always a catch… You can say too much. You can say too little. And of course if you want to understand men you must know – not all men know how to handle even a well stated “Ego” boost.

In my younger days I wouldn’t how to respond. A compliment would actually make me feel uncomfortable. I know… me? Haha!

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If there’s one area guys DO over-think things it is about nice things you might say to him. This depends on the man of course and how many people make it known to him – how great he is.

I believe there are certain rules to follow, based on the man you’re dealing with and they are very similar to what we teach guys on how to compliment or charm you.

For example – Gorgeous guys probably hear it a lot so it goes right over his shoulder. Taller men are constantly told “how tall they are.” Buffed out in great shape model types are constantly being told how sexy their body is. (Trust me I know THAT from experience.)

In my “chiseled body days” πŸ˜€ I grew so used to the same mostly lame comments on my looks that I rarely skipped a beat to notice them. This may not mean much to some of you but I’m sure there are some of you who would like to know what compliment to give a guy so he’ll stop and take notice to you.

Those men – I would stick to telling them how special and different they are and refrain from mentioning how handsome they are.

Your average looking dude? – A well placed comment on his looks might give him a little hint, a taste of confidence, or a clever way to reassure him that, he may not be the best looking guy in the world, but he does have something so many other guys don’t have. (And that can even me you.)

I’m guessing, if you’re here, you do love something about one man you hold close, or something all men have which you can not do without. Sure that can even be what lies between his legs. After all it’s not beyond me (or men) to gaze at the female form and admire its beauty. As if we didn’t already know that. πŸ˜€

This is where you get to tell me everything you absolutely love about guys…

I want the cheesiest compliments but I also want you to feel free to share all your “dirty” little secrets and fantasies. (In the hopes that just maybe your guy might notice it. Or maybe if you get it out here – you’ll have the confidence to finally share it with him.)

Alright, some of you may be asking, “What does this have to do with understanding men? What does this have to do with why do guys at all?” Fair questions indeed.

My belief is that when you explore everything you love about men and share them here of course:

  • You’ll remain positive even when at times, things aren’t working out the way you want them to.
  • You can better conceptualize your perfect guy and what you really want from a man.
  • You get to brag about your “conquest” so we can all understand how you got him and what makes him so special.
  • You can grab compliments from others to set up more romance in your life by sharing these great ideas with any guy you want.

So how does all that help you understand men better?

Well, as I stated in the first sentences – Men love to be complimented. Men love to be adored. Men love to know they’re more than capable of “catching” a girl like you.

The more he loves you the more he needs to feel – above all else and any other guy walking the planet – you him picked him. You found each other. Almost like it was meant to happen.

You see the higher he holds you in his life and his ability as a man to keep you happy, secure, and attracted – no matter how great your relationship of future relationship is – we ALL need a little assurance or validation than we’re doing something right.

Now let’s hear all about him… What do you really love about men and want them to know how you feel?

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About the author: Peter White… Showing men and women ways to attract each other naturally by helping you to understand each other. Over ten years experience which has shown me how to see things clearly and get to the root cause of most dating and relationships problems. Hope you learn and enjoy your why do guys experience.

41 comments… add one
  • Daisy

    I love the fact that he was so touched by a simple compliment I made.It made his day it seemed. I love that he was upfront and honest about his life to me. I love his quirky sense of humor, which is an exact mirrow image of my own. I love that hes goofy and fun just like me. Everything else just falls into place. It was his personality that did it. All that he has to offer after that is a major added bonus. I cant wait.

  • Madeleine Wilson

    I love that when I told him I used to be bullied he told
    me how he would have defended me – I’ve always loved men who want to protect me πŸ™‚
    Also he told me he admired me for being brave enough to be able to do what I love (singing)

  • Katherine

    I love that he is sooo funny. The way he tells me about simple every day things that happen is always interesting. I love how his eyes shift back and forth and he giggles a little. I love that he compliments me on my personality and appearance. It’s validating. I love how he makes me laugh sooo hard. Nothing usually snags me to a guy like a deep friendship filled with laughter. Strangely it makes me want to be faithful.. I stop seeking out other guys when I’m with one who makes me laugh and laughs with me. The closer I grow to them emotionally, the more I want them and only them. Like a raspberry bush amidst regular bushes. I love it when guys make me happy because quite frankly, they usually make me sad.

  • Mary

    I love when I’m out with my guy and he looks at me like in the only woman in the room. He’s eyes and his smile makes me think I’m the luckiest girl i the world.

  • Holly

    I’m in the midst of a breakup, or steps backwards. Just assessing all of my relationships. My very first love, made me feel safe. I was able to ride a rollercoaster with him. When he was with me, I just knew that nothing bad could ever happen. I never quite felt such a strong feeling of safety, so I loved that in him.
    When we split, I saw a beautiful man working as another autoshow spokesmodel with me -I walked right up and asked him for a picture. My only intention was to make my ex jealous, as it turns out…he had an ex he wanted to make jealous. We played those games together, quickly falling in love and comfort. I was very young and ended it. But I loved him for always being on my page. We had no issues communicating and understanding one another, even if it was in immature jealousy seeking ways(hey, I was 19πŸ˜‚)
    I dated a man in the military for years. When he would call, I was in an instant great mood, smiling ear to ear. And even better, I could hear his smile talking to me…we could talk on the phone no matter what we were doing. Sometimes all day. And man when I’d go to his base…I was like the only person in the world. I love how comfortably attached he was to me.
    The current one I’m struggling with here, but he has actually been forcing me to need less attachment. It’s a hard pill to swallow (He says “he wants me but doesn’t need me) I have told him I need to feel needed and am left with “this is who I am”. The whole course of our relationship has been a personal bend for me. I have to find a way to agree with his way of thinking no matter what the topic. It hurts me, but I am learning what I need and for that, I love him too.

  • Kim

    I love that this man pushes me outside of my comfort zone. He does it in a firm yet gentle and fun way, and I do not think he realizes for one second just how much he has taught me, how much I appreciate it, and how much I want to continue to be pushed.

  • shibibi

    I am a girl and I really like male friends even more than female sometimes. They usually share more giggles, don’t feel to be in a competition with me that sometimes girls do and it’s annoying and they have this laid back approach. Also I like when they share secrets with me.;)

    • Peter White

      I love it Shibbi. πŸ™‚

      I have been shown and tells guys all the time the women are far more competitive (among themselves) than most men can ever be. Sure we enjoy competitive sports but we just don’t like or bother competing with the same things that women do – and sometimes, yes, I’m going to say it “girl on girl” action can be brutal as to how they treat each other.

      Plus you’re right, us guy friends are great for sharing secrets. πŸ˜‰


  • shelly

    I will not sleep with my future guy until we get married! It will be crazy experience but it is my decision! πŸ˜€ It is an expression of my ultimate love, affection and dedication! Wish me good luck!


    • Peter White

      Well “ahem ahem” ummm Shelly πŸ˜‰

      Express away. Good luck.

      But be warned, not many men can handle waiting that long depending of course on many factors like age, customs, social life, and more importantly, his freedom to have sex with other women while he’s waiting for you.


      • Ia

        Then they’re not really worth waiting for are they? If he β€œcan’t” wait, move on.

  • julia

    I will show him I love him if he shows it too me. Otherwise I will finish what I have started and find myself another man!

    • Peter White

      Sounds like a plan Julia. πŸ™‚

  • Rachel

    I love him for how kind and thoughtful he is, I like that he is so incredibly intelligent and witty and I enjoy our banter together because he never misses a beat. He inspires me to push myself and to continue to hone my craft. I like how he takes care of me and reminds me to do things like drinking extra water when I’m sick or telling me about how bad energy drinks are for me. He worries about me too much, but it’s endearing. He always makes sure I feel respected and heard fairly, and he always tells me to dream bigger. He remembers what jokes I like, what funny noises I’ve cracked up at before so he never fails to make me giggle. Part of me thinks he’s liked me back since the first time we met, but I’m not sure.

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