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The happiest couple don’t take their relationships for granted. They seek knowledge and always look for better ways to communicate.

Support yourself FIRST and be SELFISH in your learning especially when it comes to understanding men and your relationships with them.

Question everything and never settle to seek knowledge and understanding from just one person.

When it comes to something as important as the relationship with yourself and the special men you want or wish to keep in your life, explore ALL opportunities:

Recent newsletter suggestions:

*Why Men Lie – Secret Surveys – The ultimate series on men. Thousands of men were asked questions about them and women and this is where you get to hear the answers you’ve been looking for. A free video from why he lies is here: Does He Love You? Something I normally only share with my members. It’s tagged as “7 Simple Questions that Prove How He REALLY Feels”.

*How To Get Inside His Mind – If you want to trigger strong feelings of attraction and adoration in your man, you have to know how to get on the same frequency with him. Imagine never having to deal with his silent treatment again. (Which is just really code for “I’m angry but don’t want to talk about it”.) When you know how to read him and know what he’s thinking and feeling, unpleasant situations like the silent treatment will be a thing of the past. Click Here To Discover How To Understand & Attract Any Man. For awesome advice on guys and a few free downloads from the creators, go to the approach at dialteg tm and read this: How To Develop Sexy Irresistible Confidence No Man Can Resist.

*Language Of DesireGuys absolutely love when a woman knows HOW to talk dirty. Whether you’re in a relationship and want to spark it up or you want to use it on a guy you’re just getting to know. Learn the language men DO respond to.

*Why Men Pull Away – From the amazing people at Meet Your Sweet. I just love their advice and I don’t think I’m alone on this one. The REAL reason why men lose interest, what makes him stay in love, and how to improve your love life… forever.

*Some have even suggested that men NEED drama to be pushed into actually following through with their words. Rather than sell you on that idea even though it actually makes sense, you can watch their video here The Drama Method.I will warn you though, the drama method is mainly about words and saying and hypnotic affects and I have not seriously considered or researched the “technique” myself. Use at your own discretion please.


Rori Raye


Rori teaches love and being the BEST possible version of YOURSELF.

She’s amazingly insightful on the relationships between men and women.

I may be a little quick about passing on her timeless articles to back up my beliefs but that’s because she’s the real deal and has forever changed my thoughts on making relationships work.

Learn the “secret psychology” of what makes a man fall in love and keeps him hooked for the long term…

In Rori’s free Relationship Advice e-letter, you’ll learn:

  • How to use specific words and body language so he’ll feel magnetically drawn to you
  • What to do if he’s withdrawing or getting distant in order to easily trigger romance in him and bring him close again
  • How to avoid the common mistakes that will make him become distant and resist love
  • How to get his attention FAST so he’ll be “chasing” you and thinking about you night and day
  • How to raise your self-esteem and confidence so you can be yourself and naturally attract him to you

You’ll also learn how to EXPRESS your feelings and really connect with a man and inspire his love… AND how to create a relationship that satisfies you in ways you never dreamed possible.

*Rori is about strengthening and improving your relationship and is best suited for those of you who are already in committed relationship and want to not only keep it, but make it last longer, feel better, and grow forever. You have to sign up to her newsletter in order to pick her best seller up for yourself. It has helped countless women for years now and your relationship could be her next triumph. Rori Raye – A Complete How-To Manual for Connecting To His Heart.

*You can also find more of Rori at my other site The Approach, which contains about 10 of her best advice articles written by going here. Rori Raye – New Rules for Love and Attracting Men.

For those of you who may already be involved with a bad guy, it’s not over yet. There’s always something you can start doing immediately to better your situation. First, go here –> 3 Steps To Transforming Your Man From “Toxic” To “Loving”.


Christian Carter

Christian Carter

The one undeniable fact about what I give to you as often as I can is that, if you look deep enough, if you really study my words and my ramblings too 🙂 , if you take note and pay attention there’s no doubt you’ll find a piece of Christian in practically everything I write.

So if you like what I give, how I give it, and if it remains real in your life, then you should have no reservations or hesitation that his flagship Ebook, which I now believe is in its 3rd edition…

Will not only answer lots of your question in full detail but can also offer SOLUTIONS beyond any ordinary free advice often copied and pasted everywhere.

*If you’re seriously looking for hard answers AND the solutions to common and not so common problems with men…Catch Him and Keep Him would be a great place to start and his material is designed to take you the entire way.


Claire Casey


Dear Claire,

I’ve been in a relationship for 6 months, but he seems to move really slowly. He told me that he noticed me 4 years back (we work at the same firm), and that when I started here he always looked out for me (not in a stalking way). He told me that he just had to take charge to say hi and officially meet me, and we have been together since then.

Just to give you an idea on him, he’s been with the same firm for 20 years. He is happy in his job, yes he did move up in the ranks and did make a name for himself. He told me he likes routine a lot and does not make hasty decisions.

I one time asked him why he holds back so much and he replied that he wants to make sure of what he wants…because he ‘s been hurt before. I also got hurt before, but I am not holding back…

Your program Capture His Heart started me thinking on do I want to commit to this guy, if he’s like this in our relationship now how will this be if he ever asks me to get married?

What I would like to know…. am I wasting my time with this guy or is he just really slow?

Thanks, Marie

Hi, Marie –

You’re dating a quiet, slower man, and they have their own advantages and disadvantages, and depending on what YOU want out of a relationship I think they can make pretty awesome partners.

Here’s why…

The big advantages:

A quiet, slow man is usually very stable, not just emotionally, but also (very frequently) financially. For some people, this is a huge benefit.

In other words, you get to be the dynamic, whirlwind person and he provides the grounding for that. You won’t be competing with him for attention, either.

Also, a man with a slow, deliberate approach can be quite a pleasure in the bedroom 🙂 He’ll take the time to get you where you want to go.

The potential problem:

The reason some women don’t like the slower-paced guys is because it just takes them forever to make a move! You might get frustrated at having to wait on him all the time. And if you’re hoping to commit within a short time-frame, you might have to pass this guy on by.

But not necessarily!

*Men secretly yearn for commitment and marriage and in Capture His Heart And Make Him Love You Forever, I teach you how to turn that yearning into a truly primal need.

Slow-paced guys are usually pretty happy for you to lead on making moves, for one thing. So be SURE to communicate openly and clearly with him on the important stuff. This means you have to know what you want, of course, so if you’re not clear, GET clear.

And when it comes to commitment, the key to working with a man like this is to let him know your time frame. If you hope to get married within a year after starting to date someone, you need to be able to let him know this in a non-threatening way.

Best to you, Marie!


If you’re sick of “Bad Boys,” “Players,” and guys who just won’t commit, you need to go watch this  new video renowned relationship expert Michael Fiore put up.

It’s called “3 Steps To Make A Man Love You” and it teaches you how to make a man not just “fall” for a you… But to actually make him obsessed with you so HE decides he WANTS to be serious…

*Some of her articles are also posted at The Approach on this page… Claire Casey – You’re About To Fall In Love With Her.


Carlos Cavallo


Carlos Cavallo

Carlos and I both spent years giving advice to guys and have moved on to the other side. He was my second teacher.

I’m not sure if he would admit it or not, since we haven’t spoken in a couple of years, but I believe what we pass on to guys CAN help you locate, detect, understand, and attract guys with amazingly strong attractive qualities.

If you begin to notice a guy is doing exactly what we teach AND he’s doing a good job of it – number one… it means he’s definitely interested in you AND two:

We teach guys to be REAL men with character and quality. We teach the so-called lower 90% exactly how to become a very rare valuable man for YOU.

When guys develop a uniqueness within the programs… you know he’s done the work for himself, he’s determined and capable, he understands women and wants to know YOU personally, and I’d say you’ve probably found a pretty decent “cool” guy.

After years of learning about men…

Carlos is ready to pass on that wonderful knowledge so women everywhere can truly connect with guys:

*How To Read His Signals – Inexpensive video tutorial on reading a guys signals. Optional Insiders Club Membership is offered so make sure you read the print and click the right boxes on your “secure order” screen.

*Forever Yours – Password To His Heart – Make Him Love You Video – How to open his heart and make him love you video presentation. Designed for women who want a “step-by-step system on how to understand everything he’s thinking & feeling, break through his shell, and connect with him on a deep emotional level…”

*The Connection Code. Intro ( article only ) explains 3 Connection Secrets About Men You Need To Know! It’s a quick easy to read but informative article. Follow through on the bottom for the product video. 3 Ways men test you video presentation leads you into the product sales pitch. Clever video filled with great info too.. Some Women Are Cookies – Some Are Broccoli – Which One Are You?

*Irresistible Desire – The Secrets of Addictive, Unconditional Love And Complete Devotion. Carlos’s best product so far gives you everything you need to capture the right man’s heart. A Secret Way to Make Men Desire You Video is definitely worth watching. Be sure to check out all the bonuses making this a very powerful tool. From boyfriend training, a man-speak translator, body language, texting, desires, sins, and tons more. This is only for women who want it ALL.

Secret Confessions Ebook – Free Ebook written by a commitment-phobe on how to create the perfect date for a guy. Cool stuff.

My personal disclaimer and promise: Every link on this page may earn me a compensation. I’m NOT paid directly to support their material and I’m only given promotional material to use which generally highlights their features, benefits and helps me to better understand the nature of each individuals product. Please – as always – question everything – read the fine print. Whereas I stand behind my recommendations I can not and will not ever guarantee it will work for everyone but I can promise you they offer a better understanding which will almost certainly enlighten you with knowledge. Remember – if it wasn’t for people like this I would NOT have succeeded myself… Thanks for listening and the best of luck to all of you… Pete

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About the author: Peter White… Showing men and women ways to attract each other naturally by helping you to understand each other. Over ten years experience which has shown me how to see things clearly and get to the root cause of most dating and relationships problems. Hope you learn and enjoy your why do guys experience.

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