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The happiest couple don’t take their relationships for granted. They seek knowledge and always look for better ways to communicate.

Support yourself FIRST and be SELFISH in your learning especially when it comes to understanding men and your relationships with them.

Question everything and never settle to seek knowledge and understanding from just one person.

When it comes to something as important as the relationship with yourself and the special men you want or wish to keep in your life, explore ALL opportunities:

Recent newsletter suggestions:

*Why Men Lie – Secret Surveys – The ultimate series on men. Thousands of men were asked questions about them and women and this is where you get to hear the answers you’ve been looking for. A free video from why he lies is here: Does He Love You? Something I normally only share with my members. It’s tagged as “7 Simple Questions that Prove How He REALLY Feels”.

*How To Get Inside His Mind – If you want to trigger strong feelings of attraction and adoration in your man, you have to know how to get on the same frequency with him. Imagine never having to deal with his silent treatment again. (Which is just really code for “I’m angry but don’t want to talk about it”.) When you know how to read him and know what he’s thinking and feeling, unpleasant situations like the silent treatment will be a thing of the past. Click Here To Discover How To Understand & Attract Any Man. For awesome advice on guys and a few free downloads from the creators, go to the approach at dialteg tm and read this: How To Develop Sexy Irresistible Confidence No Man Can Resist.

*That’s NOT How Men Don’t Work – Marni Kynris. Marni has been working with men for over a decade, going behind enemy lines, so to speak and in that time she’s overheard some KILLER secrets. Classified stuff that would destroy a guy if he thought you knew his game. You’re going to discover some INSANE things about the male mind that you won’t have heard before… …why most men will NEVER approach a woman they’re truly attracted to ..what ‘makes’ a man fall in love…why guys run hot and cold with a woman they actually care about. The kind of stuff you’re really not supposed to know and he would NEVER tell you!

*Language Of DesireGuys absolutely love when a woman knows HOW to talk dirty. Whether you’re in a relationship and want to spark it up or you want to use it on a guy you’re just getting to know. Learn the language men DO respond to.

*The Great people at The Penguin Method. They claim to have found a conversational loophole in a man’s mind to get him to adore and commit to you. I might not believe all that but that’s just my opinion. What I can say is that they teach exactly how to have conversations which are attractive to any man. It’s a great technique any woman should learn. Here’s a great book they put out for free which will illustrate the concept with tons of perfect everyday examples –> The Penguin Approach (.pdf file right click and save or open in new tab)

*Why Men Pull Away – From the amazing people at Meet Your Sweet. I just love their advice and I don’t think I’m alone on this one. The REAL reason why men lose interest, what makes him stay in love, and how to improve your love life… forever.

*Deserve What You Want Tagged as “If you are single and fed up with waiting around for men to call, this is the most important book you will ever read. Take back control of your own dating life NOW by learning how to become the one the partner of your dreams is dreaming of…” A great Ebook at a wonderful easy and fair price. Scot McKay inspired me to overcome my negative perception of my height, I’m sure he can help you with your dating life too.

*Some have even suggested that men NEED drama to be pushed into actually following through with their words. Rather than sell you on that idea even though it actually makes sense, you can watch their video here The Drama Method and/or I posted two of their articles at The Approach you can read: The Most Twisted Secret About The Male Reptilian Brain AND… Men Agree – This Technique Makes Them Fall In Love Hard & Fast

I will warn you though, the drama method is mainly about words and saying and hypnotic affects and I have not seriously considered or researched the “technique” myself. Use at your own discretion please.


Evan Marc Katz


Evan is a wonderful man who is sincerely in tune with the male mind.

He gives very specific advice to help women in the most important areas:

  • Untangling and avoiding past relationship mistakes.
  • Believing AND loving yourself.
  • Finding the right guy for you.

I personally love his technique because there are up front with NO GAMES, always come with a solid plan of action, and center around giving YOU control over your love life.

BUT more importantly, I feel when it comes to understanding men and what makes us commit to some women and not other women, and the timing behind it all… He knows and can communicate exactly what it takes for us guys.

*If you’re NOT living in the present, if your past relationships with guys have led you nowhere and has you dreaming about a better future then you NEED this: Why He Disappeared. “The Smart, Strong, Successful Woman’s Guide to Understanding Men and Keeping the Right One Hooked Forever – our bestselling eBook and audio program which helps women instantly understand men and get over a painful breakup.”

*If you’re self-esteem, confidence, and your outlook on life and how you fit in the bigger scheme of it all is making it a struggle just to get things done for yourself, in other words maybe you’re just shy and not believing in yourself enough then you NEED his seven steps immediately: Believe in Love – 7 Steps to Letting Go of the Past, Embracing the Present, and Dating with Confidence. “7 Steps to Letting Go of The Past, Embracing the Present, and Dating with Confidence – a powerful eBook/workbook/audio program that gives women the fuel they need to positively persevere in their pursuit of love.”

*If you find yourself going online to meet men and it’s not working out the way you would like it AND the men you’re meeting this way are wasting your time, trust me, you’re doing something wrong… Then you need to learn a different approach by getting this: Finding The One Online. “How to Master Online Dating and Create the Love You Deserve – a comprehensive online dating system, with a 180 page transcript, 7 hours of audio, and a 35-page workbook – which attracts more men, higher quality men, and helps women to create an exciting love life from scratch.”

His main page is here and I would suggest you go check him out: Evan Marc Matz

You can also sign up for his free advice newsletter through this link: Free Advice Newsletter


David Wygant

David Wygant and I both believe you ARE strong enough to handle your reality and our opinions on how we see it.

That means YOU ARE capable of completely changing your life, your dating habits, your relationships, your sex life, and your overall general happiness with who you are.

Plus I just love his “matter of fact” style AND he has changed my life with women in ways some of you get to hear about. 🙂

*A common problem I’ve seen from the single women who come to “Why Do Guys…?” is finding, meeting, and connecting with real genuine quality men who care less about playing games and more about building a real life filled with genuine assertiveness and a masculinity which is not over-bearing but down right irresistibly attractive. If that’s the type of guy you’re looking for but you’re wondering where they all are AND when you do meet that rare man you tend to shrink away because you don’t believe a guy like that can possibly fall in love with you then my first suggestion would be to get this: Connect With Him

*If just understanding men has been a serious problem for you and you believe it’s the main reason you keep ending up with immature men, losers, guys who play with your heart, guys who disappear all too easily, and it’s making you believe your just don’t know what real men want and desire then my recommendation would be to get this one: What Men Desire

*Maybe you do have a great guy and although you love him, he just doesn’t understand you sexually. Perhaps you’ve been willing to look past that part because you know relationships are not all about orgasms and loud moaning into the night BUT… It’s not only the “missing out on great sex” which hurts you a little, what is really hurting you is that you believe it’s hurting HIM so much inside to not be able to please you that sooner or later, bigger problems because of this lack of intimacy or even his manhood seem to be waiting around the corner destined to ruin your relationship. And you’re not willing to lose a great guy just because he can’t perform… If you crave passion and intimacy and firmly believe making love is an emotional connection get this immediately: How To Tell A Man What You Want In Bed

*Do you sometimes feel like men are a giant mystery and wish someone would just tell you what moves to make? Here’s the thing – it’s not your fault. Men and women make decisions about love and commitment in different ways. Men have a biological trigger, a ‘commitment switch’ so to speak… You just have to know how to flip it. If you want to understand exactly how they’re wired emotionally and why they only pursue certain women… And how they decide which woman to commit to, go watch this video now: The Commitment Switch.

You can receive his “free dating advice newsletter” by signing in on this page: Free Dating Advice for Women.

Inspiration, Knowledge, Sex, and Honesty David Wygant (more on David located here at Why Do Guys)


Rori Raye


Rori teaches love and being the BEST possible version of YOURSELF.

She’s amazingly insightful on the relationships between men and women.

I may be a little quick about passing on her timeless articles to back up my beliefs but that’s because she’s the real deal and has forever changed my thoughts on making relationships work.

Learn the “secret psychology” of what makes a man fall in love and keeps him hooked for the long term…

In Rori’s free Relationship Advice e-letter, you’ll learn:

  • How to use specific words and body language so he’ll feel magnetically drawn to you
  • What to do if he’s withdrawing or getting distant in order to easily trigger romance in him and bring him close again
  • How to avoid the common mistakes that will make him become distant and resist love
  • How to get his attention FAST so he’ll be “chasing” you and thinking about you night and day
  • How to raise your self-esteem and confidence so you can be yourself and naturally attract him to you

You’ll also learn how to EXPRESS your feelings and really connect with a man and inspire his love… AND how to create a relationship that satisfies you in ways you never dreamed possible.

*Rori is about strengthening and improving your relationship and is best suited for those of you who are already in committed relationship and want to not only keep it, but make it last longer, feel better, and grow forever. You have to sign up to her newsletter in order to pick her best seller up for yourself. It has helped countless women for years now and your relationship could be her next triumph. Rori Raye – A Complete How-To Manual for Connecting To His Heart.

*You can also find more of Rori at my other site The Approach, which contains about 10 of her best advice articles written by going here. Rori Raye – New Rules for Love and Attracting Men.

For those of you who may already be involved with a bad guy, it’s not over yet. There’s always something you can start doing immediately to better your situation. First, go here –> 3 Steps To Transforming Your Man From “Toxic” To “Loving”.


Christian Carter

Christian Carter

The one undeniable fact about what I give to you as often as I can is that, if you look deep enough, if you really study my words and my ramblings too 🙂 , if you take note and pay attention there’s no doubt you’ll find a piece of Christian in practically everything I write.

So if you like what I give, how I give it, and if it remains real in your life, then you should have no reservations or hesitation that his flagship Ebook, which I now believe is in its 3rd edition…

Will not only answer lots of your question in full detail but can also offer SOLUTIONS beyond any ordinary free advice often copied and pasted everywhere.

*If you’re seriously looking for hard answers AND the solutions to common and not so common problems with men…Catch Him and Keep Him would be a great place to start and his material is designed to take you the entire way.

You can find a page here at Why Do Guys dedicated to him and the links to his best articles for some great free advice… Christian Carter.


Claire Casey


Dear Claire,

I’ve been in a relationship for 6 months, but he seems to move really slowly. He told me that he noticed me 4 years back (we work at the same firm), and that when I started here he always looked out for me (not in a stalking way). He told me that he just had to take charge to say hi and officially meet me, and we have been together since then.

Just to give you an idea on him, he’s been with the same firm for 20 years. He is happy in his job, yes he did move up in the ranks and did make a name for himself. He told me he likes routine a lot and does not make hasty decisions.

I one time asked him why he holds back so much and he replied that he wants to make sure of what he wants…because he ‘s been hurt before. I also got hurt before, but I am not holding back…

Your program Capture His Heart started me thinking on do I want to commit to this guy, if he’s like this in our relationship now how will this be if he ever asks me to get married?

What I would like to know…. am I wasting my time with this guy or is he just really slow?

Thanks, Marie

Hi, Marie –

You’re dating a quiet, slower man, and they have their own advantages and disadvantages, and depending on what YOU want out of a relationship I think they can make pretty awesome partners.

Here’s why…

The big advantages:

A quiet, slow man is usually very stable, not just emotionally, but also (very frequently) financially. For some people, this is a huge benefit.

In other words, you get to be the dynamic, whirlwind person and he provides the grounding for that. You won’t be competing with him for attention, either.

Also, a man with a slow, deliberate approach can be quite a pleasure in the bedroom 🙂 He’ll take the time to get you where you want to go.

The potential problem:

The reason some women don’t like the slower-paced guys is because it just takes them forever to make a move! You might get frustrated at having to wait on him all the time. And if you’re hoping to commit within a short time-frame, you might have to pass this guy on by.

But not necessarily!

*Men secretly yearn for commitment and marriage and in Capture His Heart And Make Him Love You Forever, I teach you how to turn that yearning into a truly primal need.

Slow-paced guys are usually pretty happy for you to lead on making moves, for one thing. So be SURE to communicate openly and clearly with him on the important stuff. This means you have to know what you want, of course, so if you’re not clear, GET clear.

And when it comes to commitment, the key to working with a man like this is to let him know your time frame. If you hope to get married within a year after starting to date someone, you need to be able to let him know this in a non-threatening way.

Best to you, Marie!


If you’re sick of “Bad Boys,” “Players,” and guys who just won’t commit, you need to go watch this  new video renowned relationship expert Michael Fiore put up.

It’s called “3 Steps To Make A Man Love You” and it teaches you how to make a man not just “fall” for a you… But to actually make him obsessed with you so HE decides he WANTS to be serious…

*Some of her articles are also posted at The Approach on this page… Claire Casey – You’re About To Fall In Love With Her.


Reel Men In – Meet the Men You Want On Your Own Terms


Why He Doesn’t Pursue You…

He’s cute, smart, funny, and would make the perfect boyfriend.

But he NEVER asks for your number.

He NEVER asks you out on a date.

And he NEVER shows any interest in you.

Maybe he isn’t interested?


But what’s more likely will shock you…

So pay close attention…

Most men are incredibly shy and fearful of risk rejection.

In fact, a recent study reveals that most men approach only 50% of the women they’re interested in.

That means…

If you don’t take the initiative and approach men, you’re missing out on a lot of opportunities.

Unfortunately, most women have no idea how to approach men without coming across as needy and desperate.

But there’s a book called “Real Men In” that teaches you the right way to approach men.

Click here to check it out: 3 Steps to Getting The Man You Want To Fall In Love With You.


Carlos Cavallo


Carlos Cavallo

Carlos and I both spent years giving advice to guys and have moved on to the other side. He was my second teacher.

I’m not sure if he would admit it or not, since we haven’t spoken in a couple of years, but I believe what we pass on to guys CAN help you locate, detect, understand, and attract guys with amazingly strong attractive qualities.

If you begin to notice a guy is doing exactly what we teach AND he’s doing a good job of it – number one… it means he’s definitely interested in you AND two:

We teach guys to be REAL men with character and quality. We teach the so-called lower 90% exactly how to become a very rare valuable man for YOU.

When guys develop a uniqueness within the programs… you know he’s done the work for himself, he’s determined and capable, he understands women and wants to know YOU personally, and I’d say you’ve probably found a pretty decent “cool” guy.

After years of learning about men…

Carlos is ready to pass on that wonderful knowledge so women everywhere can truly connect with guys:

*How To Read His Signals – Inexpensive video tutorial on reading a guys signals. Optional Insiders Club Membership is offered so make sure you read the print and click the right boxes on your “secure order” screen.

*Forever Yours – Password To His Heart – Make Him Love You Video – How to open his heart and make him love you video presentation. Designed for women who want a “step-by-step system on how to understand everything he’s thinking & feeling, break through his shell, and connect with him on a deep emotional level…”

*The Connection Code. Intro ( article only ) explains 3 Connection Secrets About Men You Need To Know! It’s a quick easy to read but informative article. Follow through on the bottom for the product video. 3 Ways men test you video presentation leads you into the product sales pitch. Clever video filled with great info too.. Some Women Are Cookies – Some Are Broccoli – Which One Are You?

*Irresistible Desire – The Secrets of Addictive, Unconditional Love And Complete Devotion. Carlos’s best product so far gives you everything you need to capture the right man’s heart. A Secret Way to Make Men Desire You Video is definitely worth watching. Be sure to check out all the bonuses making this a very powerful tool. From boyfriend training, a man-speak translator, body language, texting, desires, sins, and tons more. This is only for women who want it ALL.

Secret Confessions Ebook – Free Ebook written by a commitment-phobe on how to create the perfect date for a guy. Cool stuff.


Are Your Shy? Do Guys Make You Feel Self-Conscious Or Nervous?

I’ve done a lot of research on your shyness and this unique system seems to have the answers you’re looking for, to cure your shyness once and for all:


I believe it’s time you stop listening to the same old advice which so far, have not done you any good. Start curing your shyness and STOP waiting for HIM to approach you.

Click below or on the image to the right and research this wonderful and effective product by Sean Cooper:

My personal disclaimer and promise: Every link on this page may earn me a compensation. I’m NOT paid directly to support their material and I’m only given promotional material to use which generally highlights their features, benefits and helps me to better understand the nature of each individuals product. Please – as always – question everything – read the fine print. Whereas I stand behind my recommendations I can not and will not ever guarantee it will work for everyone but I can promise you they offer a better understanding which will almost certainly enlighten you with knowledge. Remember – if it wasn’t for people like this I would NOT have succeeded myself… Thanks for listening and the best of luck to all of you… Pete

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