Do you know what guys are taught on how to make you obsess over them?
The number one thing is to get you thinking about him in a way which has you doubting, wondering, trying to read between his lines, or over analyzing everything he does or says.
Now did you know you will never feel something amazing for a guy if he fails to do any of that?
You can explain it however you like to yourself but I bet not one guy you understood completely… did it for you! (At least in the beginning.)
Now there’s a trick to it.
A sequence for it to work.
There’s no way you would over obsess over a guy who didn’t get certain parts in order or didn’t do them right.
Whether it was on purpose or not means nothing as the results are the same.
Think about a guy you knew and you didn’t think twice about him. He was just there. He could be anyone from a friend to a co-worker to even your girlfriends ex-boyfriend.
But something happened one day where you began to have feelings for him and from that day and on the questions started to pop up.
Why did he do THAT? What did he mean by that? Why does he ignore me? Could he…? Would he…?
And the list goes on almost forever.
Here was this guy you didn’t really think about at all and suddenly he has you running in circles. He’s driving you crazy because you just can NOT FIGURE HIM OUT?
As you think through it all your feelings develop into something more. You think there has to be something else going on.
Who knows maybe you’re beginning to love him. Maybe it feels like you belong together or like it was meant to be.
But you’re still not sure why he does, acts, or says certain things.
He’s confusing the hell out of you and you can not always literally but sometimes, NOT rest until you know the truth.
Whether it’s for closure, a relationship, or to live out your sexual desires.
Understanding men comes with a catch… the more you know about him the less you’ll desire him.
Sort of… 😀
BUT… since you project what you feel and base it on your past and what your intuition is telling you… the questions will continue and keep you guessing.
Think about a relationship where the spark is gone. Two people who have grown so close over time. The love is still there but it became a different kind of love.
Somewhere it become comfortable, predictable, and both of you became complacent and settled in to some sort of routine.
Hey, it happens. It’s easy isn’t it? We ALL can let that happen because it feels like a natural progression of love and relationships.
In fact it serves a purpose… Children.
Children are often raised more stable in a comfortable safe environment.
Yet I didn’t say predictable.
Yes it’s good for a child to have a fairly predictable place to live but it’s important for anyone to learn how to deal with unforeseeable problems.
It makes us stronger individuals who are better equipped to handle all the problems that life throws at us.
Let’s take my current (relationship? Haha!) for example…
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