Yep. It’s quite obvious what those two guys above are doing but guys are NOT always so obvious when it comes to communicating “other” things, are they?
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sooooo , i have this guy who is my best friends man , i and he are kind of really good friends , or id say were maybe , he spoke to me really nicely for days and days , our conversations used to flow day and night , i treated him just like a friend maintained all my distance and so did he , but now suddenly a person who used to msg soooo much gradually decreased , now he msges one time a day and a conversation last only till one minute maybe , i know youre first guess may be that his girlfriend wont like but i’ll tell you thats not the scene here … i am attached to him not attracted , i want him as my best friend nothing else have i ever even thought about , but he is ignoring me since few days , and when i ask him he says noo there has been no problem and he says im too sensitive ( which is one negative thing id like to hear ) 🙁 help me
Hi Peter
I seriously need some advice…
I am an Aupair and need to get a 2nd grader at her class everyday, its been about 2 months now that this guy caught my eye. He is transport for a few kids in the school.
From the moment we saw each other there was chemistry. We can’t stop starring at each other everyday it’s the same thing over and over. Sometimes he looks away when i caught him starring and sometimes he will keep starring that im actually getting uncomfortable and dont even know how to present my body language. We smiled at each other before but that’s it…. Once we walked past each other very closely and i didnt made eye contact but saw him trying to approach me but i just walk on,I tried to stop looking at him when i get to the school because sometimes it feels like im wasting my time but not to long then i catch myself looking at him and he stares at me.
please help me,what should i do?
i am not one who makes the first move and feel it is the guys job…do you even think he’s interested in me but why isn’t he making a move..
please help me
Regards
Hi
Ummmm…. Hi to you too. 🙂
So good
I have a really long story that is reallyyyy confusing about a specific guys’ behaviour towards me and because it is so weird, specific and unique I really dont want to leave it here as a comment.. I would like to tell you and ask for your interpretation of this behaviour but it is a bit long so I was wondering if it possible for me to send you an email??
Thanks!! 🙂
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All I can say is think hard about your questions (something you probably already have) and try to come up with a few short sentences which will sum it all up and I’ll see what I can do.
Hi Peter,
Please help me out to understand men’s minds!! I have feelings toward a friend we are close, we use to participate in the same volunteer work. I notice he is really shy with me when we are in public but when we are alone together he is a talk person. We never exchange romantic texts, though. I just don’t know why he is So different in all situations we are together and why does he talk normally to other girls in public but not with me?
Thank you,
Sara M.
Hi Sara,
Lots of guys become overly self-conscious when they’re in public with a certain woman AND they don’t know how to act because to them, it feels like everyone is watching them. These feeling are enhanced or made worse when they’re with a woman they might be attracted to. If he has feelings for you then that is probably what is happening.
You’re welcome,
Pete
Any advice on long distance get to know you relationships. This would be a previous co-worker.
Should I just hang it up now?
Long distance relationships are a world all their own. There’s usually so much more going on when you can not be in close physical contact with someone. You should only hang it up now IF you’re not willing or capable to do the extra work involved. Same goes for him. It requires equal commitment and dedication. At least some sort of balance knowing nothing is ever that equal or that easy to do.
Pete
I having hard times dealing with one guy I really like ,he always wanted to talk dirty over whatsapp he knew that I like him I told him to pissed of coz I feel needy..don’t know what exactly y he doing it and why he doesn’t stop
Knowing I’m looking for a serious relationship. .pls help me to reveal his mind I’m confused ..
I’m not sure if there’s much to reveal here. IF he’s only ever talking dirty with you and won’t stop AND you want something more and were clear about it AND he still didn’t get it… what does that say about him?
I guess I’m ready to learn some home truths about guys.
there is this guy who works in the same office as mine just in different department. Just a month back I noticed him staring at me. And then it just became a routine. He is cute but I don’t know if he actually likes me or not. And these days he ignores me continuously for some reason I don’t even know. If I am walking through the hallway and he is coming from the other side and sees me he immediately changes his way. It’s disturbing and I think he does not like me.
What do you think?
Hey there, I met a guy about 4 years ago at collage and we were classmates just for 1 year I was just attracted to him and I feel that he likes me too … he stared at me when I was not aware of it and some other stuff… after that whenever we met we greet each other .and he even congregated me at a group of classmates for a job promotion .some months ago he started a secret chat with me at one of the massengers and cancelled it without saying any thing (really weird). I rely get confused and started texting him 2 or three times ,he answers me but never started one… one of my friends wanted to help me by texting to him and speaking about me but he ignored that he knew me before I texted him… should I believe that? Really he don’t knows me?