Comments on: Was He Giving Out Mixed Signals? Why Just Being Friendly Is Not Enough

By: Michelle

Michelle — Sun, 17 May 2015 02:04:51 +0000

This was incredibly well written from a man’s perspective, AND a consciousness of a shy man. There are hundreds of articles that denote the actions and behavior of a shy man, but I haven’t seen many that delve into the reasoning for them.

There’s only one male writer who I’ve been following, and respecting, for a few years, due to his brilliant advices to young men and women, but you’ll be the next on my list! This was just brilliant! This article gave me a completely different insight to shy men in general!

By: Peter White

Peter White — Thu, 06 Feb 2014 21:41:24 +0000

Glad you found what you were looking for Navasia. Make sure you stop back again, you know, just to hang out and flirt.

By: navasia

navasia — Fri, 31 Jan 2014 05:06:04 +0000

Omg! This is the article I have been searching for. I’m 19, full college student and I’ve been getting signs from a program director/instructor.at first i was into him, until i found out he was getting married! I completely took a u turn and ignored him. Everytime he see’s me he acknowledges me and says “hey navasia”. Goodness, I’ve had 1 class with him and he gave me plenty of attention. I’ve never been shy about what i like about him. lets just say imma flirt! Haha, he follows m….e I’m the hallways of my college and always raises his eyebrows when he see’s me.

By: Peter White

Peter White — Thu, 14 Nov 2013 17:50:52 +0000

You’re welcome Martha.

It’s usually best, under most circumstances, to not tell a guy you think he’s nice. It is rarely taken the way you might believe.

I don’t think you have to get over him but you must change the dynamics of your connection. It’s not a guarantee but it’s better.

I tell guys, if you don’t want to be just friends with her, then stop acting like you’re just a friend. The same goes here.

Go back to square one – “Start any and all interactions with guys you might be interested in very lightly, keep it fun, and flirt a little.”

Steer away from “trying” to win him and start focusing on making him feel attraction first.

If that works, the rest will come.

Pete

By: Martha

Martha — Tue, 05 Nov 2013 19:20:05 +0000

Thank you soo Much for the answer!! You are so right! I am now so mad at myself! I thought that inviting him would be nicer. I did not Think that he would ignore me. I wrote that i thought he was Nice and that i did not show him because of my own shyness. So i actually tried..

The only thing which confused me about you answer is : dó I now have to get over this guy? Or is there Any Way I Can win him? If he ever was interested?

Thank you so Much Pete!!

Martha- Aka girl from Germany