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Is He Confusing You? How To Get A Real Answer To All Your Questions About Men

Peter White

It’s hard to believe I’ve been answering personal questions about guys for well over six years now. Thousands of women have come here looking for an answer and courageously left their heart in hopes of getting an open, honest, and REAL answer to their “man” problem(s).

What started out as a simple “nice” gesture for women who kept visiting DiaLteg TM and asking ME  for advice – eventually turned into this lovely site; which has now evolved into something I believe is really special plus free from the clutter and cookie-cutter responses my nemesis magazines sites offer you.

(DiaLteG TM is my site where I teach men natural attraction.)

Throughout the years I’ve formulated some very interesting material on men based on my own (male) experiences, going deep into all the why’s behind men and what makes them tick,  along the countless hours of research and strange ability of mine to be objective and see things others may easily miss – especially when they’re in the middle of it all.

This is of course led to me a firm belief of what I’ve now quoted as a simple understanding of men BUT along with that came the many problems associated with any new theory or belief or “unique” perspective.

For example:

I THINK and somewhat believe I figured out how men fall in love – or what has to happen for him to feel emotional love BUT another problem arises:

There’s no clear definition of LOVE that is consistent among men and love has many different forms. (Such as how even though there’s only one word describe it in English – it’s obvious a man’s love for his Mother is different than the love he feels for his children which is different from what he experiences with a woman he is sexually and emotionally intimate with over a period of time.)

But enough of all that…

This page was created in the beginning as a place where a woman can get an honest, upfront, objective answer about any specific guy in their life OR where you can leave question about men in general to help you understand, connect, and possibly attract a better man into your life.

Little did I know (not counting the thousand comments on posts) I’d be looking and trying to get through a single page with over 700 comments.

Quite the daunting task as you imagine.

What I’ve now decided to do is find a way to break down all the questions and answers into separate pages and delete them from here so it’s continually fresh and easier to get through. (Wish me luck!)

That way you can search for something similar to what you’r going through without having to expose your personal information or heart publicly AND if a question is interesting to you – you can give it a read and perhaps use the advice in your own personal life with men.

Yes – this page will now or very soon be once again OPEN to anyone who wants to leave a question BUT…

I can NOT do what I have done in the past. I have a businesses to run and a family to enjoy my time with and I don’t want to promise you more than I can give.

I can give you personal consultations with very detailed answers based on a very strict selection process where a fee will have to be paid up in advance. (More info on that is coming.) 

I will be choosing random questions to answer here and sometimes I’ll feature them in a post.

Here’s your opportunity to leave what’s on your mind about a guy or men in general.

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  • Eilish

    HELP. I am in my twenties and this guy I fell in love with is as well. We started off as acquaintances over the internet; we just wanted to chat to somebody and we ended up sharing for hours on end. I didn’t expect much out of it of course, but we decided to keep in touch as we both love travelling and discovering new cultures (he’s from the other side of the world; an utterly different culture, different faith – although I am religious and he doesn’t really practise – different problems – he’s from a poor country compared to mine). We got along well and became good friends (even had nicknames for each other and made fun of each other all the time saying we should meet and do stuff together, sending pictures and videos of our whereabouts…). Months passed… and well, we’ve been knowing each other for almost two years now. I knew I was falling for that guy but kept it to myself because I am not exactly what men like and didn’t want to make him uncomfortable; then one day he starts joking about marrying me. I didn’t think much of it although it really made me nervous and agitated (THE FILMS I STARTED DIRECTING IN MY HEAD, YOU HAVE NO IDEA!) and smiled. Basically he keeps saying (all the time) we should meet, that we should just get married and go live together so we can be happy and sometimes he says what I need is a nice guy like him. NOW. He is very sweet, but every time I start trusting his ways… and acting accordingly, showing a little more of my heart to him… he either disappears or seems distant. I don’t know what’s going on. He either texts me one-hundred times a day (yes, I don’t like texting but certain days I receive so many messages by him and I reply obviously) or stops messaging me altogether for four days in a row. Then he’ll come back in all his charming glory. I don’t know if I got it wrong; at some point (after a while of him acting like that) I even tried and suggested that I really wished we could meet and finally spend some time together in real life, to which he agrees but… he’s unreadable. If I go back to friend mode he’ll switch it to what seems to me a more flirty mode (he knows I am shy and he knows it’s very awkward for me but he seems to like when I’m embarrassed – his very words), if I try and close the distance though, well he’ll go back to friend mode the next day. I am not even the one who started mentioning that. He did all on his own: he likes everything about me, thus he states. I wish he wouldn’t say those things. I even cut off contact at some point (I told him first that I was going to cut contact), and as soon as I came back (after MONTHS and only to say sorry for acting that way) he was so happy, wouldn’t shut up and whatnot. I have no idea what’s going on.
    Please enlighten me. What am I supposed to do with this weirdo? I even explicitly said I also like his looks (you never know, maybe he doesn’t think I’d like him, so I tried).
    (please don’t show my email else he’ll know it’s me)

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