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What Do You Love About Your Man or All Men? Show Him How Much You Care

Guys want to be noticed. They want to know how much they’re loved.

How could you so easily love a guy in that shirt. Do you love how goofy he acts. How great he always smells. They way he always looks at you like he really gets you. Tell us, what do you REALLY love about all men too.

Guys love to be complimented. Much more than you might ever believe. Here’s your chance to let it all out and tell ALL men all the little things you love about them.

But there’s always a catch… You can say too much. You can say too little. And of course if you want to understand men you must know – not all men know how to handle even a well stated “Ego” boost.

In my younger days I wouldn’t how to respond. A compliment would actually make me feel uncomfortable. I know… me? Haha!

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If there’s one area guys DO over-think things it is about nice things you might say to him. This depends on the man of course and how many people make it known to him – how great he is.

I believe there are certain rules to follow, based on the man you’re dealing with and they are very similar to what we teach guys on how to compliment or charm you.

For example – Gorgeous guys probably hear it a lot so it goes right over his shoulder. Taller men are constantly told “how tall they are.” Buffed out in great shape model types are constantly being told how sexy their body is. (Trust me I know THAT from experience.)

In my “chiseled body days” 😀 I grew so used to the same mostly lame comments on my looks that I rarely skipped a beat to notice them. This may not mean much to some of you but I’m sure there are some of you who would like to know what compliment to give a guy so he’ll stop and take notice to you.

Those men – I would stick to telling them how special and different they are and refrain from mentioning how handsome they are.

Your average looking dude? – A well placed comment on his looks might give him a little hint, a taste of confidence, or a clever way to reassure him that, he may not be the best looking guy in the world, but he does have something so many other guys don’t have. (And that can even me you.)

I’m guessing, if you’re here, you do love something about one man you hold close, or something all men have which you can not do without. Sure that can even be what lies between his legs. After all it’s not beyond me (or men) to gaze at the female form and admire its beauty. As if we didn’t already know that. 😀

This is where you get to tell me everything you absolutely love about guys…

I want the cheesiest compliments but I also want you to feel free to share all your “dirty” little secrets and fantasies. (In the hopes that just maybe your guy might notice it. Or maybe if you get it out here – you’ll have the confidence to finally share it with him.)

Alright, some of you may be asking, “What does this have to do with understanding men? What does this have to do with why do guys at all?” Fair questions indeed.

My belief is that when you explore everything you love about men and share them here of course:

  • You’ll remain positive even when at times, things aren’t working out the way you want them to.
  • You can better conceptualize your perfect guy and what you really want from a man.
  • You get to brag about your “conquest” so we can all understand how you got him and what makes him so special.
  • You can grab compliments from others to set up more romance in your life by sharing these great ideas with any guy you want.

So how does all that help you understand men better?

Well, as I stated in the first sentences – Men love to be complimented. Men love to be adored. Men love to know they’re more than capable of “catching” a girl like you.

The more he loves you the more he needs to feel – above all else and any other guy walking the planet – you him picked him. You found each other. Almost like it was meant to happen.

You see the higher he holds you in his life and his ability as a man to keep you happy, secure, and attracted – no matter how great your relationship of future relationship is – we ALL need a little assurance or validation than we’re doing something right.

Now let’s hear all about him… What do you really love about men and want them to know how you feel?

PLEASE READ THIS BEFORE POSTING – I will be monitoring your comments and sometimes it may take up to 24 hours for your comment to appear. Please be patient. Keep it light-hearted and fun and we’ll all learn something. As always feel free to compliment me as much as your heart desires. I won’t hold it against you. :)  – Pete

26 comments… add one

  • Cori

    His open-ness the first time I met him. The assertiveness and control of himself. His persistence at my discretion. His honesty and who he is without hesitation, wow! I love it! Yes, he is blue collar and his utter masculine-ness and all his accomplishments are nothing less than admirable. What a 100% man!! His tenderness towards the people he loves is impressive. His voice, scent and eyes that I can’t get out of my head. He’s definitely good enough for me, I’m smitten…

  • Lucy

    I love my crushs hands. I can’t even explain how hot the make him look (or maybe it’s just me who sees it that way) i look at them all the time: when he drives, holds my hands, uses his phone, has a drink. And when he touches me, I know he’s touching me with THOSE hands that aaah! They are big, thin, strong, bony hands and his veins show. I guess I have a fetiche. Hands never fail to turn me on, but those type of hands. Amall, chubby hands are a turn off.

  • vincenza

    Im single right now but here are some things that I like about some guy friends I have: I like how they can make me laugh when I have a bad day or will just text just to say hey . How they hold doors open for me cuz I never had that before. How they are protective in a way and I know that I can come to them if I am confused about a guy or a situation and how they try to help me out . I like when they make me laugh and respect me. I have some really great guy friends

  • Emma

    I love how smart he is. I love his big sad blue eyes when he’s staring at me. I love that he understands me and tells me how he feels too. I love that he trusts me and that we’re friends. I love what a great dad he is. I love his humility. I love that he cares about other people so much. I love that he always responds quickly to me when he can. I love his smile. I love when he’s miserable and grumpy and complaining about things that don’t matter. I love that he will drink a “feminine” drink just to keep me company. I love that he asks my advice. I love that he has female friends. I love when he holds my hand walking down the street. I love when he compliments me in a very casual way. I love when he tells the guy at the local shop that he’s been given the wrong change, all calm assertive. I love that he doesn’t pester me or try to hard any more… Or do I hate that? Haha I can’t decide. I love that he forgives me being crazy.

  • Karen

    I love men.

    Having spent much of my teenage years growing up around my dad, brother, and my college buddies (8 guys, 2 girls including me), I have grown to appreciate the male mind.

    I love women for being naturally adept at keeping relationships and friendships in tune, but with guys I feel I’m more able to let my hair down. I can enjoy plainly stated conversations and observations without worrying too much about offending people’s feelings (I try not to offend people, but in the company of women I have to take extra effort to be ‘softer.’ Perhaps it’s also cultural).

    Aside from the intellectual aspect, I also love men for being big squishy teddy bears underneath. Even the most seemingly stoic guys — or maybe especially the most seemingly hard-assed guys — can be the sweetest furballs if they care about you.

    There was also a time when I was brokenhearted so badly that I almost stopped trusting men completely, and what prevented me from doing so was knowing that giving in to a sweeping emotional judgment would be a huge disservice to my male family members and friends who genuinely care about my welfare, as well as other good guys out there whom I’ve never met [yet].

    What I’m trying to say is that while I love being nurtured by the company of other females, I love how being around guys makes me feel, like I’m more at home with who I am as a woman.

  • Adia

    I love everything about him.his smile,his eyes, his great personality however, whenever I told him I miss him,i like him,i love him, he will just keep quiet. Then one day, he told me that I must learn to live without him since he cannot be online all the time.

    (he is in Australia and i’m in the Philippines now but we already met in person :)). I literally got confused with his reaction.

  • missj

    I simply adore men. They’re wonderful & sexy in their own gorgeous unique way.
    I like touching the stubble on their chins, the rough texture, drives me crazy – it’s so masculine.
    The way their shoulders move when you watch them from behind cleaning dishes, or just observing them work up a sweat while doing domestic chores or any kind of work is so fucking hot!
    I like their arms, how they’re so big & strong that they could be so destructive, yet be be so careful and gentle with delicate things.
    I enjoy how every time my head is against a man’s chest feels like the most welcoming and safest place in the world (the exception being, it’s just with those I trust).
    How they have “that look” or “sparkle” in their eye with that mischievous/silly/happy grin on their face I find completely irresistible.
    I also find their misunderstood humour entertaining or just ridiculously hilarious.
    I adore men and how their “basic-logical reasoning” compliments my “complicated-understandings” (if that makes sense).
    I love men. xo

  • vuyo

    Yah ne their stubbornes why men always want to be bagged i lv this guy but he always want me to be the one who call him most of the time and i can’t

  • Khushi

    There is a boy who has a crush on me. He told me some days before. But I am not sure about my feelings about him. We both are childhood friends. Now the problem is that how do I reject him, so that he does not feel bad and we become friends again.

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